37.1C is when I die.

Source.

  • snooggums
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    7722 days ago

    This is mostly because men showing any sign of weakness is blown out of proportion by observers, not because we complain about it.

    • @[email protected]
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      4122 days ago

      Right? I make one groan in the office because I’m aching due to food poisoning, and it’s like I just emailed the entire floor to come make comments about me acting as if I’m dying.

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        … why are you in the office when you have food poisoning?

        But of course you’re likely in the US, so no need to say anything. You guys are fucked in that regard

        • @[email protected]
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          4722 days ago

          My co-workers saw me turn almost sheet-white before spending the next 45 minutes throwing up in the company bathroom, trying to drive home and having to go to the ER halfway because I was throwing up and dehydrating so badly I could barely move my hands anymore

          Even with a doctor’s note management and HR were like “ok but did you have to call out sick the next day tho?”

          I eventually quit a month or so later when they tried to write me up for not coming in while being sick after our entire delivery driver team (who only directly interact with me) all got sick and spent 3 weeks coming in and sneezing on me

          Fuck the US

        • @[email protected]
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          I’ll say, a lot of people say food poisoning when they have any sort of nausea after eating. They should probably still go home, but the degree of sickness is not the same. What gamermanh describes is food poisoning. The 2-3 times I’ve had that in my life, I’d have preferred death for the ~6-10 hours it afflicted me. And I’ve had MANY kidney stones.

    • @[email protected]
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      522 days ago

      Nah. I worked all last week slinging mulch, rock and dirt with bruised ribs, because I’m a tough guy. One of those nights I got slight chills and crawled into bed like a sick puppy. I am in this meme.

    • @[email protected]
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      Unironically I read through your whole link and found no mention of anything related to “better at dealing with being sick due to hormones”.

      Either you linked the wrong article or you’re making stuff up.

      The closest in there was

      The gender differences in the biological determinants of health and illness include differential genetic vulnerability to illness, reproductive and hormonal factors, and differences in physiological characteristics during the life-cycle.

      But it goes on to talk about tropical diseases like Malaria, chronic health issues like heart disease, and mental health issues.

    • @[email protected]
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      Yes and men are better at recovering from injury. Testosterone causes both effects. It’s a tradeoff!

  • @[email protected]
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    Fuck gender norms. Im a man who wants to be a stay at home dad who’s more than comfortable with the fact that my wife makes more money than me.

    I also take the “mild fever” as what its supposed to be. I dont take medicine because im a “tough guy,” i dont take medicine because i let my body heat up to kill what ever is inside of me thats not supposed to be there. I let science run its course because thats gonna make me feel better sooner.

    Had a fever this week. Sweated it out over night, slept all day the next day, fully functioning the day after that.

    • @[email protected]
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      Sweated it out over night, slept all day the next day

      If I did that, I’d be “weak” because I didn’t “tough it out” and work a 12 hour shift while I was contagious AF and make things worse for everyone else because “a real man doesn’t take days off!”

      …fuck that. I’m staying wrapped in my giant blanket until the fever breaks.

  • magnetosphere
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    One of my friends couldn’t believe I’d never heard the term “man flu”. Once it was explained to me, I laughed. (I’m a guy, btw.)

    • @[email protected]
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      That’s really bad. You might get other people sick with what you have, but if they’re immune compromised or otherwise vulnerable they could have a really bad, possibly fatal, time.

    • @[email protected]
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      122 days ago

      I will curl into a ball and die with the slightest fever (I rarely get one). Physical pain? I’ll fucking limp into work and pop another couple kratom.