• Grass Cat
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    012 days ago

    JFC kids, get out there from behind your screens into the real world. Go do the activities you like to do, as much as possible. You will very likely encounter the people who like the same things as you. Maybe even one of them might be kinda cute. Get tf out from behind your screen and go discover your real life out in the real world.

      • Grass Cat
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        012 days ago

        Oh but I do! My wife is also from the same small town where we now live. Ran into her 16.5 years ago on my golden 27th birthday at a shitty dive bar in the bigger metro area late on a weeknight. Stop making excuses and get out from behind your screens and go live your intended life.

        • @[email protected]
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          011 days ago

          at a shitty dive bar in the bigger metro area late on a weeknight

          So drive 2 hours to go to a place that doesn’t interest me? I’d have to drive even further for a hobby club.

          • Grass Cat
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            011 days ago

            JFC do you need me to pick you up and take you out to meet people myself?

            • SharkEatingBreakfast
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              011 days ago

              Neat! Shuttle service! Zaph, get in!! We’re going get overpriced drinks at a loud, overstimulating place and complain about it the entire time!!

  • Lucy :3
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    011 days ago

    Well if it’s literal red flags, it can’t be that bad. Bonus points for black flags. 🚩🏴🚩🏴

  • @[email protected]
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    011 days ago

    This seems to be changing a bit as I get older, but a lot of people don’t realise this works both ways. What do you bring to the table?