My ex pestered me for a good while with a fantasy: she wanted me to force her to have sex any day she didn’t want to. I wasn’t exactly eager to try this, but it wasn’t a problem because we were having sex every day.
But the day came, and I said “well, she’s been asking for a while, let’s get this over with”. She didn’t need much convincing, I just grabbed her by the back of her neck and told her we were going to have sex no matter whether she wanted or not and that was it (she was quite submissive in bed).
After we were done I had a weird feeling because that’s not something I like to do, but I thought “at least I’ve fulfilled her fantasy and now she’s happy”, right?
Well, no. She was angry at me and when I told her “but you’ve been asking for this for months!” she answered “yeah, but I wasn’t in the mood for it today!”.
Is this so much to ask for? Someone who will treat me with respect while also sexual degrading me when I want it?
My ex pestered me for a good while with a fantasy: she wanted me to force her to have sex any day she didn’t want to. I wasn’t exactly eager to try this, but it wasn’t a problem because we were having sex every day.
But the day came, and I said “well, she’s been asking for a while, let’s get this over with”. She didn’t need much convincing, I just grabbed her by the back of her neck and told her we were going to have sex no matter whether she wanted or not and that was it (she was quite submissive in bed). After we were done I had a weird feeling because that’s not something I like to do, but I thought “at least I’ve fulfilled her fantasy and now she’s happy”, right?
Well, no. She was angry at me and when I told her “but you’ve been asking for this for months!” she answered “yeah, but I wasn’t in the mood for it today!”.
That’s why you ALWAYS denny insane requests. Never put yourself at risk when you don’t have to, just because someone does not know what they want.
You injure or god forbbid, actually rape someone, you have done an awful thing…and for what?
This is why it’s important to always put emotion last to reason.
Dude you committed rape. Use a safeword.
No, he didn’t. Prior consent was established and there’s no indication she revoked it during the act.
She just didn’t realize some fantasies are more inconvenient than sexy.
Like car sex.
The problem is it is very hard to tell when you want it.
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Bitch?
this is the politest “bitch” I’ve ever read.