• @[email protected]
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    025 days ago

    Not a wish, just statistics. You have a higher chance of getting divorced than staying together.

    • @[email protected]
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      025 days ago

      That statistic applies to all marriages and not to first marriages, also iirc it was only for a few years. Divorce rates have been on a generally downward trajectory for quite a while

      • Fluffy Kitty Cat
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        025 days ago

        That makes sense. A lot of bad marriages were only held together by divorce being illegal and they all flew apart at once. Then things have slowed to a more natural base rate

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          025 days ago

          There’s also a lot less pressure to marry early or at all. Like, I’m married because I love my wife and wanted to marry her. Had I been pressured to marry younger I probably wouldn’t’ve met her and may have resented being pressured in before I was ready.

          • Fluffy Kitty Cat
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            025 days ago

            Lots of people married right put of high school so they could bang and now they’re stuck together. Still happens in really religious communities

    • @[email protected]
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      025 days ago

      That is absolutely not true, it’s just made up pop statistics spread by misanthropes that misses the nuances of the data