43% would be not at all willing to date someone who had opposing views on Donald Trump. Many say the same for the Capitol attack (39%), DEI (37%), abortion (37%), and gender roles (37%).
I have two brothers who are variations on the theme.
I’m the oldest and middle brother is a longtime conspiracy theorist who’s on the anti-vaxx, deep state fringe (and at least pleasantly is notably not a bigot) and youngest is an IT guy and a stock,-standard tech “libertarian” who rages about wokeism and free speech and idolizes Musk and is about every kind of bigot imaginable.
So I spend holidays mostly hiding in the study, surfing the web and trying to ignore the bits of mansplained propaganda wafting down the hall…
That’s rough, sorry you have that problem. I have a similar thing with my mom and her trump loving b/f. The holidays usually last about 1 hour before I leave.
yUgh. That sounds even worse. You have my sympathy.
It’s a weird thing about this era. In the past, I would’ve tried to argue with them about their views, but at this point, it’s effectively impossible, since we don’t even share a reality. They live in a world in which, for instance, Kamala Harris is a DEI hire who got appointed as the candidate by Biden, who’ in turn is still working for the Obamas, and she lost because she’s a socialist.
Thanks, I have stopped even trying to make sense of their world. I just get up, say my good-bye to the rest of the family, and leave. It’s kinda all you can do, they will try to pull you down to their level and then beat you with experience. Your situation is bonkers for sure.
I find it hard to even work with those types of ppl, let alone date one.
I have two brothers who are variations on the theme.
I’m the oldest and middle brother is a longtime conspiracy theorist who’s on the anti-vaxx, deep state fringe (and at least pleasantly is notably not a bigot) and youngest is an IT guy and a stock,-standard tech “libertarian” who rages about wokeism and free speech and idolizes Musk and is about every kind of bigot imaginable.
So I spend holidays mostly hiding in the study, surfing the web and trying to ignore the bits of mansplained propaganda wafting down the hall…
That’s rough, sorry you have that problem. I have a similar thing with my mom and her trump loving b/f. The holidays usually last about 1 hour before I leave.
yUgh. That sounds even worse. You have my sympathy.
It’s a weird thing about this era. In the past, I would’ve tried to argue with them about their views, but at this point, it’s effectively impossible, since we don’t even share a reality. They live in a world in which, for instance, Kamala Harris is a DEI hire who got appointed as the candidate by Biden, who’ in turn is still working for the Obamas, and she lost because she’s a socialist.
Where do you even start with something like that?
Thanks, I have stopped even trying to make sense of their world. I just get up, say my good-bye to the rest of the family, and leave. It’s kinda all you can do, they will try to pull you down to their level and then beat you with experience. Your situation is bonkers for sure.