The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/oceancows on 2025-03-06 15:34:16.

Hi, I (21F) am currently with another student (25F) on an internship abroad in South east asia. We didn’t know each other when we heard that we’re were placed to go to SEA. But now that we are here I just dont like her, I am fine with being roommates but thats it.

When we met I instantly felt like we were not going to be best friends or something. I thought, maybe it takes time or something. But know that we are here I am so irritated. Everything I ask her answer is, I dont know, what do you want, etc etc. she doesn’t make choices because i think she is really insecure. But that means that I have to decide everything, from what we are going to eat, when we will start eating or what we will do the day off. And i just cant anymore. We have been here for just over a month.

I talked with her about how I feel when she does these things and she said she will improve but she just doesn’t. I am stuck with her for 2,5 more months. Luckily i have met some other people who are staying here for a long time and where I instantly clicked with! Lately I have met them a few times for drinks or to do something. I always invite the girl I am with here but she never really wants to go. Or when she does she is just silent. I feel a little but guilty, because we are here together, but she doesn’t want to go? Or when she does go it seems like she isn’t enjoying herself.

So AITA for meeting my new friends more often and kinda leave the girl I am here with?

Ps: english isn’t my first language so sorry if there are a few errors here and there.