The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/DarkCBWillow on 2025-03-06 17:07:57.

Years ago before my husband and i were married, when we were engaged, I was involved in doing some adult content videos for money because we were on the verge of being evicted (but neither i nor he knew the details of what was being asked of me when i showed up for the ordeal and it was too late to back out afterwards). When i came home to tell him about it, he blew a gasket and pretty much threw furniture and freaked out.

Its been years and to me it was a shitty gig i was involved in but im ready to move forward with my life. I have a professional job and family and i dont care to look back but he wont let me forget it. He is still deeply triggered by the situation. He cries about it and often yells at me for long period of time. I had suggested he see a therapist but he said he doesnt want anybody else to know about my fuck up. Divorce isn’t an option we do love each other he just hates my past.

He is deeply ashamed of me and pretty much told me he felt like the most unluckiest person of all his friends to be married to someone like me and if people we knew found out, they would gossip and mock us. I had been quiet and just bit my tongue for the longest time until i couldnt take it anymore and pretty much called him a bitch for crying and whining about it for years and now our relationship has soured even worse. AITA for that?