• @[email protected]
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    230 days ago

    I’m pretty new, but I like it here. It feels bigger than 54k MAU, probably because everyone is really active.

    • @[email protected]
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      129 days ago

      It also feels like half the activity on Reddit now comes from bots. It makes it feel emptier than it probably is to me when I go visit there occasionally, especially on the big subs. Which then makes me focus on the small subs, which end up feeling smaller or equal to the fediverse already, just on more niche topics.

    • Kane
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      130 days ago

      I completely agree!

      Posting/commenting on Reddit largely feels like a waste of time to me if it’s not something big and attention grabbing. I would get zero people to interact for days, while on Lemmy I usually get a reply within a few hours if I have a question about a post.

      Of course this isn’t evidence of anything, but I feel that it’s because Lemmy hasn’t been flooded with bots (yet? Hopefully never).

  • sillyplasm
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    11 month ago

    I’m beyond thrilled! can’t wait to see some of my favorite communities spring up here.

  • @[email protected]
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    01 month ago

    To anyone new wondering about phone apps for Lemmy, I use “Thunder” and it works great.

    Also, feel free to say Luigi without getting banned.

  • @[email protected]
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    01 month ago

    Its still a shame that I will never recommend this place to anyone I know until the community changes here.

    Its a bit chicken and the egg cause we likely need one for the other. But with the users proclivity for bans, and blocks you end up with a user base even smaller and discussion that more feels like a battle to be right most of the time because intellectual superiority is looked up to rather than conversation.

    I still think a community of people competing to be the most right in every comment section does not lead to actual community and doesn’t even help provide facts or info to most communities when there are not many niches to which people in here can participate in. Objective facts work best not in fandoms but in crafts. Like what glue doesn’t melt Styrofoam when doing prop building not which show or game is best.

    I may be alone in this but I yearn for “the normies”.

    • @[email protected]
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      21 month ago

      Me too, but I still prefer this place to reddit. I have the same exact gripe: those that must be the most right. I’ve just found a lot more of them on reddit than lemmy. I have lost count of the amount of times I start to write something on reddit, then imagine how someone somewhere, from some angle, can decide to be offended if they want to, then just delete the comment. It definitely happens on lemmy too, it’s just in my experience it has happened less here, so I have been more willing to type out comments here. It really sucks that this has not been your experience.

    • Victor
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      11 month ago

      a community of people competing to be the most right in every comment section

      I think this depends highly on the type of community. (Although clearly I’m doing it to you right now. Sorry.)

      Highly political topics and such are the worst, probably. But others where people come because of a shared interest, like a sport or food or animal or something, a hobby, I think tend to be more chill and mellow.

      • @[email protected]
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        01 month ago

        You would think. I still won’t go back to the gardening community. And will probably just stop participating in anything around here.

        The problem is that there is still to few others than those types. The topic seems secondary. The mellow places are where it’s empty.

        • Victor
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          01 month ago

          Maybe it also depends on the topic. But there are always gonna be annoying people everywhere you go in life. 🥲

          • @[email protected]
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            130 days ago

            The topic was how much they hoped my garden withered because I couldn’t afford to fully mulch all of it and was saying I was having to constantly weed the edge of my garden.
            They proceeded to gleefully wish harm upon me and hardship for not doing or being exactly like them and as I begged for help from others to not feel alone was told I likely deserved it.

            Yeah people are truly awful everywhere and not working on getting better.

            • @[email protected]
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              29 days ago

              That sucks. I’m sorry that happened =(

              It was like that for me on the Marvel Rivals subreddit on Reddit. I didn’t like all the smurfs (new accounts made by higher ranked players in lower ranked lobbies) but when I complained about it and said lower ranked or more casual players deserve to have fun, too, a bunch of people diminished my experiences, gleefully said they smurf, it’s a skill issue, it’s not a real problem (despite me checking enemy user profiles and sure enough, they’re all experts at this game with barely any time played and all wins in their competitive matches), just to not play, etc. It’s like pro basketball players dunking on little kid community games. They deserve to have fun, too!

              Don’t have any advice or anything, and what I said may not have made any sense to people who don’t play the game, just empathizing on how much the internet sucks sometimes and your comment reminded me of that. Now I’m angry just remembering it lol.

              • @[email protected]
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                229 days ago

                Sorry. But yeah. Don’t have an answer but it’s a mess for being a new memeber when it feels communities don’t care to remember that people have to start somewhere.

                Sorry that it happened to you too.

    • @[email protected]
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      this is a problem with fediverse in general imho.

      the tools admins and users have are blunt (defederate or block). with all sorts of content moderation policies and opinions you will inevitably end up either alienated from everyone or surrounded by people that think and talk just like you.

      fediverse does offer many advantages… creating a better online “town square” is just not going to be one of them.

      • Fluffy Kitty Cat
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        11 month ago

        Tool development is one of the things that we’re going to have to go that. Thankfully Creative Energy being poured into server software and apps is something that’s already happening quite natural even that small user base numbers

  • Sjmarf
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    01 month ago

    Worth noting is that what counts as an “active user” has changed between now and then. During the Reddit API exodus, an “active user” was a user who had posted or commented in the past month. Now, it includes users who have voted. If the 54k MAU record was set using the first algorithm, it is likely that the MAU using the new algorithm (which includes voting) would have been much higher.

    • Avid Amoeba
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      01 month ago

      I think that change was done way back when. Do you have a reference for the algorithm change? I tried a quick search and came out empty.

      • Sjmarf
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        11 month ago

        The change was merged in Dec 2023 (see here). The Reddit Exodus was in summer 2023.