• pelespirit@sh.itjust.works
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    8 months ago

    Please send me an archived link and I’ll put it back up. If it’s got a blue checkmark, provide a link please.

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      8 months ago

      Man here. I would 100% choose dying alone over manipulating some poor woman beaten down by society’s misogyny and trying to subjugate and gaslight her with incel treatment. That probably sounds extreme to these freaks, but my eventual partner will be completely equal and we’ll have a better relationship because of it.

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    8 months ago

    At least the really awful people are letting us know they’re that way up front these days.

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    8 months ago

    I really despise the women that end up in relationships with and keep supporting these guys. Way to spit in the face of every single one of your peers.

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      8 months ago

      I don’t blame anybody for staying with an asshole over being alone. For one thing, being alone really, really sucks. For another, a lot of assholes have clever ways to manipulate you into staying with them.

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        8 months ago

        Sadly, most of those ‘clever ways’ are just being manipulated from the time you popped out of the womb. Religious communities and highly conservative communities never tell you anything but that being a good person means being… subservient. It’s difficult to imagine for people who grew up and had a variety of people tell them all sorts of things, encouraging questions and learning, but it is ‘normal’ for every single person in your life to tell you the same thing and you are punished and ostracized (which, mentally speaking, can be worse) if you go against the grain in any way. Escaping that and the mentality it brings takes luck and help. Many of them will even lash out if you try to help, because of that fear of anything different that was ingrained by the group.

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    8 months ago

    The women I know who have given up on dating get involved in big community groups of women sharing hobbies, and seem more fulfilled than ever.

    There’s no female loneliness epidemic. It’s the dudes who are killing themselves.

  • Lady Butterfly @lazysoci.al
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    8 months ago

    It’s ok ladies, I’m single and I like yappy ladies! Please come mine and I’ll make some queer coffee for us both.

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    8 months ago

    Is there any explanation to why these people think that way? Is it really pettiness or do they have some kind of point (even if its a bad one)?

    I just cannot wrap my head around being so sad and miserable.

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      8 months ago

      I’m a dv outreach worker and I’ve done a lot or research. This man may be a dv abuser, he could also be an incel or similar. No decent man thinks this way and happily most men disagree.

      Dv abusers are narcissists who have wildly unrealistic expectations for women, whilst simultaneously having no respect for them. No woman could possibly live up to his impossible expectations, and he kinda sees his partner as his property.

      Incels are more complicated to work out. Best summary I can give is they’re often riddled with self hatred and issues they fail to work on.

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    8 months ago

    Many women are perfectly content being alone and childless. That’s why these guys are actually angry. They need women. Women don’t need them. Rather than improve themselves to appear more appealing to women, they want to enslave and drag women down to their level.

    Politicians looks at numbers. There are lots of degenerates like this, so many you can count on their vote if you entertain their abuse. Politicians see this is an unpopular choice to make with women so now they want to keep women from voting.

    These fuckers should be killed.

    The goal is to create a world that serves the needs of as many people as possible. These fuckers instead want to enslave everyone to as few as possible. They are missing the point. Every time that has happened in history it has led to collapse.

    I just have so much hate in me right now.

  • Rose@slrpnk.net
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    8 months ago

    I’m already alone, and I’m just fine this way, thank you.

    Fortunately I don’t live in Douchebaglandia.