• some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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    4 months ago

    I find women with hairy armpits hot because they don’t let society dictate how they should live.

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      26 days ago

      You’re assuming no woman without hairy armpits is simply making that choice for themselves.
      You’re also assuming no woman with hairy armpits is simply conforming with their ‘rebellious’ social group (such as “throathole” up there in the OOP), doing it to fit in with their explicitly-defined definitions of social rebellion.

      My favorite color’s pink, and one day when I was wearing a pink shirt, a friend, well-intentioned, I’m sure, commented with a smile on her face that ‘real men wear pink’, as if to compliment my ‘rebellion’ toward gender/sex norms.

      But it wasn’t rebellion. It’s just a color I like. Same can just as easily apply to a guy wearing blue, who isn’t trying to ‘conform’, but simply likes that color.

      Sometimes it’s just not that deep, and honestly I kind of respect it more when someone makes a choice like that based on neither conforming nor rebelling against an expectation. I say it’s actually more non-conformist to not give a shit what ‘side’ your subjective choices happen to land on.

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        4 months ago

        I dunno. I bought a pink hoodie at a female musician’s show and my then gf didn’t think I’d wear it in public. The first time I wore it, a tough looking dude said, “cool hoodie.” I liked the design, but I also appreciated that some men wouldn’t have worn it and a guy who stereotypically wouldn’t be thought to appreciate it did. We can all like things for whatever reasons.

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        4 months ago

        I find some women hot. I don’t judge by the armpits, that’s not my thing. Boldness is hot when wielded correctly tho. I agree with the spirit of rebellion guy, even if not the wording.