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Angel(she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 25 days ago

How will my crush react to this… 😬

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How will my crush react to this… 😬

Angel(she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zone to Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 25 days ago
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crosspostato da: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/34204678

I am very shy and very MUCH in denial…

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  • Victor@lemmy.world
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    Well you just said to her that they have the wrong idea so if you have a thing for her then you fucked up. 🤷‍♂️👍 Good luck!

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      Oof, yeah… I’m gonna add that “if you do wanna be a couple though, I’d say yes” 😅

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        Just ask them to be a couple or on a date. Be brave for five seconds and go for it.

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        • Angel(she/they)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          OK, TYSM!!!

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        My guyrl! 💪

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        How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? To go from “I like you” to “Do you want to be my girlfriend?” in the same conversation feels very middle school. Then again “I’m in an open relationship” gives like 18+ vibes. But could also be high school I guess?

        Either way, happy for you if this is what you wanted out of the situation ☺️👌

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          17!! And TYSM

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