Why is this transphobic? (Update)

So, I posted about not wanting to shave despite my family and the guy I like wanting me to. Someone on another social media platform (I know Lemmy isn’t like other social medias sometimes) said that it was because the guy I like was transphobic and saw me as a girl. Is his behavior transphobic for wanting me to shave my private areas and legs? I think it’s just a preference…

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I think it’s transphobic since he thinks of you as a girl but I also don’t think anybody should be telling you to shave if you don’t want to.

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