• catsarebadpeople@sh.itjust.works
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    5 days ago

    What the? Please no. This is a glitch just for me right?

    Edit: ok, reading other comments in this thread and it gets pretty weird and scary. Hope she is ok.

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      She is with her BF. This is the safest she can be under the current circumstances. It’s been a distressing evening for her and she deleted her account in a depressive episode but she’s going to be fine. She now finds it was justified what I did on 2026-10-10 and does not consider it “doxxing” or “swatting”. To be clear, I’m not happy I had to do it and I’ll ask her for emergency family contacts so I can make someone trustworthy text/call/visit her instead, which I’d prefer. I don’t, don’t want to, and can’t know her address but she can find mine now from what I shared with her when we met on 2026-10-04 and from earlier texts.

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      5 days ago

      Not sure what’s happened(haven’t read everything yet), but hope you’re okay Miisha!

  • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    It’s the best. Duck all you puritans, I need hornyposting to sustain me. It’s validating af. And bring back violet while you’re at it. shakes fist at a cloud

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        Edit. Replied to wrong comment originally

        Thanks I only know of this periferally. So it’s unlikely to be the same persons unless they were all AI accounts of the same owner anyways lol

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        5 days ago

        That’s true, I’ve yet to see a post about licking armpit sweat from Miisha

        couldn’t have violet without some pit licks

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        5 days ago

        Keep piling on me instead of the person that fucking doxxed her.

        At least they were doing so in the interest of helping her. You were attacking her for no fucking reason beside your own ego.

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          Yes, I did what it took to help her and it worked. The police here are mandatory high-school-educated and very good at de-escalation, and in a situation of “her word against mine” (she hadn’t started carrying out the plan; they didn’t want proof from me, that can be easily faked) they couldn’t do anything to her legally. All of the 20+ Czech cops I’ve interacted with in my life were reasonable and didn’t abuse their positions to be mean or angry or go beyond what protocols allow them to do.

          I wouldn’t have done it if I could have visited her but my bigoted Mom wouldn’t let me (it’s only a few days later that my therapist told her she’s overly controlling, which made her relax this). I consulted Mom (she’s still quite close to me) and she said it was the right thing to do. My psychiatrist, psychologist and German teacher, who I confided in, all agreed.

          Also, of course I wouldn’t if I had contacts to Miisha’s close ones who could call her or visit and offer hugs for example, which the police can’t do.

          By the way, neither Miisha nor me considers this “doxxing”. I don’t know her address and couldn’t find it out if I tried. The police found it in their database and kept it secret from me. If I had known her brother’s phone number and used it to make him visit her, without me showing him the posts or him telling me her address of course, would you consider this doxxing?

          • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            Oh LoOk, AnOtHeR oNe To BlOcK!

            What are you, twelve?

            And you’re literally still belittling and dehumanizing others, and now using it as a cudgel to defend your shitty behavior. What a goddamned tough person you are.

            Fine. Block me, for the sole reason of thinking you’re a piece of shit and calling you on it. Put a note on my account, too. Have it say “this person explained why I was acting rotten, so I blocked them”.

          • velma@sh.itjust.works
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            You all are on here running defense for someone on social media and idolizing them. Clear that no one on Lemmy is actually smarter than the average redditor that got their dicks hard for the jackdaw guy. Y’all need actual lives.

            And you’re running offense against someone on social media and vilifying them.

            Look in the fucking mirror.

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        Lol, you’re right. My presence here was nothing but an annoyance to people anyway. Don’t worry tho, I’m probably not coming back. You can enjoy your clean feeds now.

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          Ignore spacecowboy92, that person is just confused and hurt and trying to fix themselves and making the mistake of tearing down others.

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          I don’t WANT a clean feed. I need real humanity and validation of my needs, not sterilized shiteating puritanical fascism. I know how the swing goes. And there are a lot of idiots on here, of ALL flavors, I’m amongst them. But please, please, please don’t compromise on being yourself. You’re ALWAYS going to offend people, no matter what. You cannot please everybody, it’s impossible.

          So take the time you need, and be safe and well. But know that, should you choose to return, there will always be at least a few people here who appreciate what you’re bringing to the table. And judging by the upvotes on this post, I honestly think it’s actually the majority.

      • exu@feditown.com
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        5 days ago

        FYI, the person above you edited their comment giving your reply a second unintended meaning

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        Fuck like they legitimately did this at almost the exact same time that I posted, didn’t they?

        This is the worst thing I’ve ever done and I’m sorry

        • ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.org
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          5 days ago

          I think my DM to her may have caused this, actually…

          CW: self-harm

          it’s not bad itself (not gonna tell what"s up, it’s up to her to share why her situation has me worried to the point of reaching out to Lemmy, which she’s just been actively using but hasn’t opened Matrix in a while; to be clear it’s not grave danger) but it made her open the chat last used when she expressed suicidal ideation and I pretended to want to visit her, as police wanted me to find out where she is so they could do a wellness check. She didn’t want to ever see it again and went with the nuclear option…

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            5 days ago

            you manipulated a trans woman into giving you her address so you could call the fucking cops on her? what the fuck?

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              No, I don’t have her address or means to find it. (Even if I go to her neighborhood, I have no idea what name to look for on doorbells: likely her BF’s, which I don’t know.) She once slipped up and revealed her name (I then gave her mine to make her feel less insecure, even though unlike hers, it’s basically linked to my address, which she can find with not too much effort). By learning she was at home, I could tell the police her name and neighborhood, and they used their database to find her, knock on the door and ask if she was fine. It may feel weird but our police is very much unlike US cops. Look at other comments, I think it did make her uncomfortable but it was justified what I did, given that − as many now agree − the alternative was genuine, high suicide risk.

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            Damn I joke about killing myself all the time and none of y’all have ever tried to dox me for my own health.

            Guess I’ll just die then. I’ll leave my account up tho, I’m not a monster.

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              I never showed the police her account. (They didn’t want proof.) Or shared her real name with anyone but the police. Her real identity is still separate from the account. She seemed really serious with the plans, and given her mental health history, it seemed appropriate since I couldn’t come myself… and it seemed to work, she gave up for the day, and the BF came and then they were fine together

              So I didn’t doxx her… I did only have her real name due to a slip-up on her part though

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                So I didn’t doxx her… I did only have her real name due to a slip-up on her part though

                You doxxed her to the police though.

                I understand your concerns. Some of her posts were concerning. I’m not even totally opposed to you trying to get a wellness check done. Telling her about it was probably scary for her though.

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                  Well, I didn’t give them any way to find her online accounts. Her digital identity is safe, I needed to do this to protect the person behind. And they need to know the name and whether she’s at home to do their job…

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    genuinely, the recent uptick of hornyposting has helped me get over a bunch of internalized shame that i didn’t realize i had.

    big ups to everyone for fostering such a safe and cozy space 💖

  • Space_Cowboy92@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    Logging in to downvote and block serial reposters like Miisha. Seriously, how can anyone have so little of a life to post as often as they do?

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      Blocking people you don’t want to hear from: ok you do you I guess

      Posting a shitty comment and pretending you know anything about anyone’s life: go fuck yourself asshole

      No asked you. No one cares. Get lost and please block me.

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      Seriously, how can anyone have so little of a life to post as often as they do?

      You’re in the same place the rest of us are. Who are you to cast stones in glass houses?

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        There’s a difference between scrolling and commenting sometimes and being addicted to social media/posting. Ignorant to think they’re equitable in any way.

        Edit: and so many people on Lemmy talk about how there needs to be less serial reposters and more genuine content. If they want to spam instances, create their own and feel free to do so. Most people don’t like seeing the same people posting over and over and over, it doesn’t seem genuine.

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          and so many people on Lemmy talk about how there needs to be less serial reposters and more genuine content. If they want to spam instances, create their own and feel free to do so. Most people don’t like seeing the same people posting over and over and over, it doesn’t seem genuine.

          Your fingers work, don’t they? Just block the users you don’t want to see.

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                No, it was to call out a serial reposter and let people decide for themselves. But you don’t like that. And you also immediately started attacking Miishas alt and jumping down their throat in another post. Seems like you’re the one who likes to hurt people intentionally.

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                  Logging in to downvote and block serial reposters like Miisha. Seriously, how can anyone have so little of a life to post as often as they do?

                  Keep telling yourself this was a neutral statement just to inform people.

                  I jumped down their throat because they were talking shit about Miisha, much like you. I immediately updated my comments when realizing it was her talking terribly about herself after users like you were attacking her.

                  I don’t mind throwing vitriol back at mean people, no.

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          You are directly benefiting from people posting content though.

          What’s the point in being mean to someone over posting on a social media site that you use yourself?

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            I do not see any benefit to seeing the equivalent of someone’s Facebook feed. Post in their own instance and community.

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    6 days ago

    In the world nothing can be said to be certain, except death, taxes and Miisha hornyposting nice memes :3