• Signtist@bookwyr.me
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    2 months ago

    …really, bud? The argument you’re going to make is that all groups hate people?

    I’m in a baking group with some local people in my neighborhood. We make cookies and cakes to share with one another, and sometimes make things for people in the area who don’t have the time or money to afford a birthday cake or something. Yes, there are people who are included and excluded from our group - namely anyone who wants to join can join, and anyone who doesn’t, doesn’t have to. Sounds real hateful to you, I’m sure. I’m also in a D&D group - we exclude people who we don’t think are a good fit with our group cohesion, but we always do so with respect, leaving things on good terms. Who exactly do we hate?

    Now, I am also a part of hateful groups. For example, I hate Nazis because they chose to be hateful scumbags. I also hate billionaires because they chose to hoard wealth at the expense of everyone else’s wellbeing. I would never hate someone for something they can’t control, like their gender or race, though. As I said, the only thing you can judge people on are the actions and decisions they specifically made.

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      2 months ago

      Right, so if you are hate people, it’s justified, but if someone else does it, it’s not. Gotcha. And otherwise you’re morally perfect or something and totally inclusive, except when the people you don’t like join you group, then they must be excluded, but it’s not hateful! it’s just so nice to ask people to leave if they don’t fit your ‘vibe’.

      Oh what about pedophiles? do you not hate them? or do you have to include them in your D&D group as long as they fit the ‘vibe’?