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Cake day: November 3rd, 2026

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  • Lmao I’m sorry that’s the corniest shit I ever read “who do I think I am here”

    I don’t know who you are at all, your page implies very little about you and doesn’t dispel what I said.

    Do you think being in trans spaces makes your comment come off less like you are attacking me for calling out this post as bullshit? This post is bullshit. I hate spaces centered around positivity. They are the most counter productive and fake things to exist. You came off like you have a problem with me saying that and frankly still do. So fuck off with the insults.




  • It’s not lmao you come off like a bot.

    Oooo please be satire because someone doesn’t want another space to turn into a place for small talk about football where you’re not “allowed” to be negative. Like fuck off.

    Are you proud to be a walking stereotype of an ignorant racist American? Do you really think every single space should cater to every single sensibility of every single dumb ass american countryside loser?

    Everyone knows you picked Harry Potter because subtley, you are saying “fuck trans people for telling me what’s bad” because your GOAL is to cause harm to trans people. Either that or you are so mentally weak that you can’t deal with one case of FOMO.

    Literally this dumb ass shaming thing you people do is all you’ve got. You’re bullies at the core using the language of normalcy to high key normalize JK R (You would say I’m pushing people away by calling her a nazi right? Because she is)


  • Ah, I see, Lemmy is a lame space for lame people lol.

    People who don’t want another pumpkin spice football country girl harry potter space get upset that there aren’t spaces for people that hate that shit because

    every single space EVER is for you normies.

    You people are so selfish, you will not stop until everything is a jeep and a tiki torch. I love being negative, you people are lame. At least I’m happy. Ya’ll walk a tightrope balancing act every day to feign well being for a bunch of people that do not care about you at all.

    Also Harry Potter fans are pathetic. You are bad at liking art and a bigot. I used to be a huge fan too. If you can’t upgrade your time use, don’t try to justify that level of incompetence to me.




  • You’re just right. Most people are really weak and spineless, and on top of that a lot of people are just plain evil. We constantly make excuses for the people who cause the most harm through bigotry and we’re all pressured into punishing anyone who decides to take action against bigots into their own hands.

    I say fuck it all and do what I want which is the opposite of that. No more coddling bigoted viewpoints.



  • You know a lot of these spaces offer you outright kindness and respect and that’s cool but I’m offering a counterpoint.

    As a trans woman, I can tell when people like you are around. I can feel your hatred for me, and your jealousy and it’s not nice. I hate that people like you get preferential treatment in these spaces while I fight for my life to be out of the closet because I’m brave and you’re not. You get to be employed, treated normally, because you are in the closet and I’m not. And then on top of that you hate yourself too? You get to be a coward so you can suck up all the resources other people need and be a hateful bigot, and to top it off you hate yourself for being trans too??? That’s such bullshit.

    I’ll probably get in trouble for this and that’s fair but it is how I legitimately feel, reading this.






  • I have been following expectations less and less, it is really good for my quality of life and I recommend it personally.

    I’m trans and homeless though so I never get hired and everyone treats me like a criminal by default anyway lol even though I’m clean and healthy they think I’m dirty and weird because of my recycled clothes and that I dress for the weather and comfort which doesn’t align with their gender expectations. I just treat it like a really good flea dip, everyone who treats me with kindness is more trustworthy.

    I gave up on finding work in August when things didn’t work out with an amazing case manager. She could get anyone a job, the problem is the market was ignoring me outright. I got certified and tons of volunteer experience along the way but none of it was worth it or got me what I was looking for in life.

    I’ve been learning how to live outside in the city and out in nature too. Learning to identify plants and forage. My partner is amazingly kind and supportive thankfully, although they often struggle too. It’s way more rewarding because these skills can carry me through the rest of my life and give me autonomy that no one can take away through outside pressure.