Rob-Oso

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Wow I’ve seen a LOT of foot fetish but I’ve never seen this. Pretty clever and it looks really hot. Even for me as a non footie. I’m going to have to try this now 🤭😍

This is a really classy and exciting photo. Love it! Very well found (unless you made it yourself in which case you’re a true artist)

Pretty yes. It’s something I’d love to wear too (though this size won’t fit lol)

Nice one!

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Basically the idea of https://bugmenot.com

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Oh that part I can really recognise from the local scene. Many clubs are full of little cliques that don’t talk much together.

It really put me off at the beginning but now I know everyone so it doesn’t bother me. And at some clubs the management makes more of an effort to introduce new people.

But it’s definitely a thing in some places yeah.

Lol in gay bars here in Europe there’s a lot more exposed than nipples 🤭

And yes “lewd acts” all abound too but really that’s kinda the point of these bars.

Really hot!

This is such a beautiful harness. If I had boobs I’d love to wear something like that ❤️

Here most BDSM clubs are not really about sex. Some parties are definitely sex positive but they tend to attract a different crowd than the core BDSM one. It’s more swingers and young people trying stuff out.

But I find that even people who like to play in public tend to go to the bedroom with curtains closed when they want to have sex (which is pretty rare in the real BDSM clubs) so I think what you experienced was pretty typical.

However some of the swinger clubs also have BDSM events and/or a dungeon. If your area also has these that might be a better fit than a true BDSM place.

I’m sorry you feel that way about your age. I’m nearly 50 and it makes me feel invigorated. When I was 20 I was way too insecure and anxious which dropped off over time and enabled me to get into BDSM. Now I go out more often than ever :)

But yeah 24/7 is a heavy commitment. It wouldn’t be my thing. I like to play around with different people also (not just in BDSM but also in bed). But I’m really lucky to be in a big city that has all these amenities.

I love the local scene! I go to pretty much everything. All the clubs, events etc. There’s 5 clubs here, one of which just opened and it’s huge. I’m really spoiled :)

In fact I don’t like to play 1:1 in a private setting very much because I’m pretty exhibitionistic. It’s not as much fun without other people, I love playing in public in clubs with people watching. I don’t have my own mistress but several of them play with me when I’m around and I like it that way for now. My girlfriend isn’t really into it that much even though she’s a bit dominant.

I live in a big city so there’s no issues with locals knowing your business and frowning upon it. The scene is a bit ‘underground’ in that all the clubs hide their addresses but it’s more because they had some bad experiences with randoms trying to get inp.

Online I’m not so active. A bit on fetlife and here but it’s not a big part for me.

Ps Great idea to start a discussion!

For example yes, but other body parts too. But usually it’s done on sensitive body parts yes.

Aww thanks <3

Thank you for adding me! <3

It’s about inflicting or receiving pain through electric shocks.

I would be interested in helping out!