jahtnamas [sie/hir]

i’d imagine hanging your whole body weight off a branch by your horns would hurt immensely

yeah i definitely have ass lasers

my partner’s brother’s ID also expired this year but he got correspondence and i did not.

literally i didn’t notice my state ID had lapsed until 3 months after the fact

sure, arch is “hard” but it’s also hardy in my experience

follow-up: i’ve now attempted a shot at peertube on plasmatube and it doesn’t like that i have 2FA enabled for my account judging by the login errors.

plasmatube has support for peertube but i haven’t tried it.

consider compression tops, or a sports bra you can wear backwards

i haven’t purchased from there yet because the import cost has gone up but i had been looking at spectrum outfitters for a while after my partner stumbled upon it one day

ime, it turned out that my partner is demisexual. he thought he was straight (though a bit bi-leaning with some exceptions i tease him about) but his attraction didn’t really change when i came out. he’s just attracted to me.

idk, this sounds pretty outside the binary to me.

re: the pants paragraph: are you aware of genital nullification surgery?

i think you missed the part where the damage is twenty years extant.

i mean i’ll consume fiction in short bursts (like fanfic chapter updates) but it’s very hard to focus on large paragraphs and i get annoyed that by the end i’m not absorbing the material at all. something i had subscribed to on ao3 came out with a chapter recently that used basic html colour rendering for some of the chapter’s symbolism but it clashed with my dark theme and was unreadable and i had to ask the co-author if it was okay if i used reader mode to actually see the fucking words.

also i got punished for spending too much time on the computer in my teens by having to spend time reading books. i absolutely abhor the format of physical books now. i’m an OG harry potter hater because my stepmom started me on the 4th book and i was so fucking lost on what anything was. i did end up going back and reading the first 3 and enjoying them and finally understanding the 4th, but i got halfway thru book 5 (when it was new) and i was just so over it all.

i actually hate reading now

in america

at 30 i was a demigirl, but since i turned 32 (am 35 now) i consider myself genderqueer. i was struggling with the whole idea through my late 20s however.

thank you for explaining! i’m still relatively new to actually using XMPP so i don’t really understand it all. i had gone into the kaidan chat a few weeks ago and learned that there isn’t legacy OMEMO support and that it’s low priority to implement, which i initially thought was my issue because i couldn’t decrypt a message i had sent myself from conversations on android.

i mean, dino and gajim work but something about the designs of gtk apps bother me. i think it’s the excess padding.

i cannot for the life of me figure out why kaidan doesn’t sync my chatrooms or let me join any new public ones. doesn’t even give me an error, it just doesn’t do it.

i’m not gonna pretend i know how open source governance works but this feels like a deep misunderstanding of it. what i’ve seen done over the years when shit like this happens is devs hard forking or admins migrating to similar projects that actually share their values. my instance has plans to move to piefed, for example.