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sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Is being born a girl a fate worse than death itself?English31·9 months agoThis sounds more like personal issues than a “man vs women” issue.
Believe me men are not as privilige or care free as you make it out to be. Men struggle with their own problems too. They’re just better at hiding their pain and sorrows because they are taught to do so.
From a man’s perspective they may see a woman’s life as being way easier because a man is expected to bare more responsibility and women seem like they get handed everything on silver platter.
Now this could vary depending on where you are from. For instance if you were from china women might be worse off or if from certain states or regions of america, men might struggle more. In america men have a higher suicide rate and more likely to face homelessness.
Many men struggle with knowing who to turn to for help and many face such prejudices as men bad by default and societal norms pampering to women needs.
Though would like to point out altenative issues that’s not just about what your sex is. Perhaps the bigger issues is that of the wealth gap between classes and the whole men vs women thing is but a diversion to divide people by having them fighting among each other rather than face the issues of elitest manipulating both men and women.
I think we should focus more on sympathesizing with eachothers struggles, but also understanding maybe things aren’t always as we lead ourselves to believe them to be. Good and bad behaviors are not exclusive to what one’s sex is. There are bad men, there bad women, there are good men, there are good women. Remember this.
I know life can be hard, and is tempting to point fingers when in stressful times. I hope you find means to put yourself at ease. Also please don’t blame men for being men. They can be fools sometimes. If you get to know them for their character apart from just being a guy i think you’ll come realize men come in all sorts of variety of personalities apart from each other. A select few couldn’t possibly represent the entirety of the whole male population.
Good luck to you.
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why did the pope announce anime mascots?English41·9 months agoThe Pope learn that he were no match for the power of fumo so he brought about a fumo of his own creation to gain the power of fumo for the great fumo war
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What is your pet peeve in 2024?English2·9 months agoBut i would acttualy need the phone number for sms verification code for registering things online which i refuse to give my phone number. I like my online privacy
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What is your pet peeve in 2024?English3·9 months agoEverything requiring a personal phone number and/or email just so corpos can keep tabs and data harvest personal information out of people an do what the hell ever with it without any consent. My personal data is not your damn property, leave it the fuck alone.
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What is your pet peeve in 2024?English0·9 months agoWhen you search google for answers and the search results end up being forum replies of someone saying “just google it bro”
Edit: sarcasm, not actual search result… yet
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Do you ever get a profound sense that everything in your life has happened before?English0·9 months agoI would hypothesize that people would start with strong psychic abilities in early stages of their life, but the longer we live the more these abilities dull or become loss all together. Not because of old age, but because the accumulated disruptions to our minds with passage of time (radio waves, internet, brainwash media, indoctrinations, etc). We are constantly bombarded with psychic disruptions passing through as well as being reprogrammed to lose our abilities through brainwashing and indoctrination. We are made to conform to arbitrary societal constructs that work against us without realizing it.
sho@ani.socialto Dragon Ball@ani.social•Halloween style Bulma painted with watercolors 🎃 by Jonny2mayEnglish5·9 months agoCute
sho@ani.socialOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you like/dislike about lemmy?English2·9 months agoBeen wondering… what is a tankie?
sho@ani.socialOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you like/dislike about lemmy?English4·9 months agoMight i ask which mods you feel are power tripping? You don’t have to answer if you don’t want, no pressure.
sho@ani.socialOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you like/dislike about lemmy?English81·9 months ago“which is a dog whistle that they’re tired of being yelled at for their shitty views” 🤨 you’re trolling right? Like @[email protected] says “they just wanna get away from politics” … not everyone cares to have a political opinion and likely just wanna avoid the hostility or nuances that comes with politics discussion. I myself would rather see to much more pleasant things that isn’t just abunch chaos and steam. Wouldn’t you rather enjoy your time than to be a salty bitter lad?
sho@ani.socialOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you like/dislike about lemmy?English62·9 months agoIm pretty sure most people including mods don’t want to see a bunch of soul-less bot postings. That is straight up community manipulation. Please don’t use bots, use your human mind to interact.
sho@ani.socialOPto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you like/dislike about lemmy?English81·9 months ago“I like the way Lemmy functions, with things like an open moderator log and the way that instances can be created to prevent too much control from one singular instance from pushing people completely off the platform if they have bad moderation, for example.”
Oh yeah that seems an excellent way to keep a power balance between users and moderation. Hadn’t used reddit all that much, but heard of the nightmarish moderation abuse.
“I don’t like the users. For every one user that is nice and wants to have a legitimate conversation, there are like 300 that just want to fight/argue or spew politics into a non-political conversation.”
Sadly is a big issue with many platforms where politics is used for excuse to mental flex, invalidate, clout motives, and flat out bully. So i try to avoid politics or deflect and avoid people who just looking to argue for the sake of argueing to assert dominance. Too many headaches online deal with.
“The number of users I have blocked on Lemmy is far longer than the amount of users I ever blocked on Reddit, and my Reddit account existed for about 10 years.”
I might do the same tbh, i can see there are quite a bit of users needing filtered out on lemmy. Can also see some get angry knowing that people would rather just block em’ and not engage with them because then they can’t fuel their clout driven ego 🙂
“The problem with this is that particularly nasty users can keep creating accounts on instances they keep creating in order to harass people they don’t like. So even if you block them, they just switch to a new account, etc.”
Perhaps this could be resolved by implementing a user follow list and making it so users can only be interacted with if the user approves the follower who is trying to follow em’
“They can also do this for vote manipulation, not like that really matters on Lemmy but Lemmy users seem to have fallen victim to the same problem Redditors had: seeing a comment with 0 or -1 score and then completely disregarding whatever it said, not reading it and downvoting it automatically.”
Imo i think lemmy could just do away with a voting system, it would reduce cognitive bias by not giving them a sense of popularity contest to determine if it’s worth reading a user’s post or comment. People should judge for themselves rather than having others do it for them.
You seem a a reasonably decent person btw.
sho@ani.socialto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Federated social media from before it was coolEnglish1·9 months agodeleted by creator
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why are peole hating on .world?English1·9 months agodeleted by creator
sho@ani.socialto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•what's stops one from scavenging the best parts of old phones and putting them into a new one?English9·9 months agodesign compatibility issues and proprietary firmware or software
sho@ani.socialto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some powerful open source projects everyone should know?English2·9 months agoEver hear of a hackerspace aka makerspace?
For if you eat only smoothies, you’ll have extra fruity farts and then become a fruit