For this question I am referring to males who you don’t know at all or are just friends or co workers that you have no emotional desire for.

For males it’s different where just a quick look at a nice ass can start blood flowing to your cock.

I have to believe with females that when they see a very good looking fit guy that they occasionally fantasize about that guy being on top of them fucking their brains out.

I guess our DNA is set so females are much more selective as to who they might consider mating with, but I wonder how often they think about it and what actually is a trigger point for them.

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    On average maybe once a day? There just aren’t as many good looking men wandering around, as there are good looking women. Maybe that is a selective brain thing but I don’t think so. My bisexual kids and friends say the same thing.

    Isolated body parts, no, not really. But when I see a guy around my age who has taken good care of himself and is hot, yeah.

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    2 years ago

    I just wanted to thank you for using woman/males/females correctly, and not juxtaposing men and females or anything like that.

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      2 years ago

      can you elaborate on this? i have trouble understanding how the use of woman/man/female/male can be offensive.

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        Male/female as a noun are a bit dehumanizing because most people (in English) don’t say things like “males of the species” when talking about humans. It’s mostly used for talking about animals.

        The rule of thumb is that if you’re going to talk about “males [of the species]” and “females [of the species]”, then talk about both in the same way. Don’t talk about “females of the species” and “men” – it dehumanizes (in this case) women.

        Female/male as an adjective are perfectly fine. Man/woman as nouns are perfectly fine.

        It’s a common incel thing to talk about “men and females”, using the normal word for men, but the more dehumanizing word for women. That’s when it’s a problem.

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      2 years ago

      I would imagine that not having a physical indication of your arousal—that is visually obvious through clothing, at least—would allow that happen more frequently, simply because there are no social consequences. You can just stand there and look at someone while throbbing, and no one would ever have to know… as opposed to what happens if I allow myself to get that turned on, and how everyone would know. I’m kinda jealous; I ain’t even gonna lie about that, lol.