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@lonefighter @velma
“It felt like none of my business who he had been with before me.”
True, that’s private stuff. Only parts of it that may be important to share are those that will objectively impact the relationship. (Stalker ex, for example.)

Also to add for others, being bi does not mean having a sexual history with partners of at least two genders. It does not even mean having any sexual history at all.

I felt compelled to add this to account for bi erasure.

@Maeve @velma I firmly disagree with the statement “I have a right to know if a potential partner is bi”.

There are no reason for anyone to be entitled to knowing a potential partner’s sexual orientation or potential transidentity. That works for other private info.

Said potential partners, however, have the right to flee those who ask.

You prefer knowing it, because of your traumatic experiences, that’s vastly different. Understandable need, and it **can** be better to discuss it, but still not a right.

One has no reason to trust a mere “potential partner” with such a sensitive info. Especially in a place with strong anti-lgbt social standards or laws.

@velma Were do the biphobic stereotypes come from ?
Why, even ?
I guess that, like most if not all discriminations, it stems from domination and exploitation systems. But are there other explanations ?

Anyway, the stereotypes are so dumb.
Why would bi women accept a FFM threesome just ot please a man ? They are people too, not sextoys.
Why would bi men be born cheaters ?
Why would a bi person’s sexual orientation be defined only by their current partner’s perceived gender ?

(BTW i’m bi, poly, and mostly a man, but in an mono relationship with a woman. There’s no risk of me cheating on her.)

@KyuubiNoKitsune Degraded and worsening life conditions are never the cause of demographic numbers plumetting, according to these tyrants.
It’s always the “others” fault, here us LGBT.

Also, birth rate decline in itself is not a problem, except for the so-called “elites” that benefit from exploitation systems.

@arctanthrope Pretty sure monogamy rules in France target specific groups, but…
How is a law system that target a specific minorised culture or group of people, instead of a proven harm, be reasonable ?