Not in the slightest

My woman and I enjoy kink immensely, and she enjoys pain, and being stretched to her limits, but it’s never “punishment”

It’s not about me having power over her at all.

Anyone who really understands kink knows that the locus of control is with the sub anyway

We just enjoy the kind of sex we enjoy, without worrying about how to label it

I don’t “punish” her, she’s never going to “punish” me, neither of us are subby at all. That’s not how our dynamic works

But jeebus, she puts herself through some shit in the throes of passion…