I like it but don’t get it often. Would rather have it out physically like that, and have it be over, if that makes sense. Only in the bedroom I will give up like that; out in the world, no. Whatever he wants is what matters, because I do like that kind of, well, argument resolution?

That feeling of being scared and mad and turned on is just really intense, and the resulting release so complete that it’s a migraine trigger for me, like the weekend after a stressful week at work is. That abrupt relaxation.

Yeah I like it. Not the headache but can manage that & short circuit it with drugs if I know it’s coming.

As play? Yes I like that too. Anything that just uses his hands, and is safe. He’s stronger than me physically so anything that really shows that, being restrained, subdued, or also moderate spanking or slapping, controlled not out of control. So that I don’t have to be, right?

Not really punishment, no. But I like being used for my partner’s pleasure and if it’s painful or degrading that can be more fun sometimes. My partner really likes biting me and so I’ve come to enjoy it greatly along with them.

Oh slaps to the balls always makes sure the receiving person knows who’s in control. Strongly pulling the hair and biting the neck havr the same effect^^

Not in the slightest

My woman and I enjoy kink immensely, and she enjoys pain, and being stretched to her limits, but it’s never “punishment”

It’s not about me having power over her at all.

Anyone who really understands kink knows that the locus of control is with the sub anyway

We just enjoy the kind of sex we enjoy, without worrying about how to label it

I don’t “punish” her, she’s never going to “punish” me, neither of us are subby at all. That’s not how our dynamic works

But jeebus, she puts herself through some shit in the throes of passion…

Sitting on my face