@[email protected] to Ask [email protected] • 16 days agoWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?message-square405fedilinkarrow-up1279arrow-down12
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minus-square2ugly2livelinkfedilink3•14 days agoSame! I don’t know why, but it’s like, “they were nice… I can never come here again.”
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink2•14 days agoIt’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish1•edit-214 days agoFor me at least I think has is something like: If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink3•14 days agoHonestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it. There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish1•14 days agoExactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that. I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
Same! I don’t know why, but it’s like, “they were nice… I can never come here again.”
It’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
For me at least I think has is something like:
If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
Honestly I prefer to be perceived as a little weird, because then you can be… A little weird without worrying about it.
There isn’t really a what to what I’m afraid of. I’m not sure if it’s better or worse this way
Exactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that.
I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.