• Rooskie91@discuss.online
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    13 days ago

    People are talking like this in their 20s, like people never get married in their 30s or 40s lol. Chill the fuck out, develop skills and hobbies, and love will come.

    • The Picard Maneuver@piefed.worldOP
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      13 days ago

      Yeah, 20-somethings do NOT need to despair, although I would also add: make it a priority if love is something you truly want to find.

      I see lots of people talk like this while not taking any active steps, as if the love of their life is going to knock on their door and tell them to stop scrolling and marry them.

      • Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world
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        13 days ago

        I mean, I’ve been married for ten years to a woman who sent me an absolutely unsolicited and unprompted message on OK Cupid, where my profile was so disused I nearly forgot about it.

        Sometimes the love of one’s life does just knock on their door and tell them to stop scrolling and marries them.