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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • Oh god, I listen to a lot of music, so get ready, and fair warning I’m kind of a metalhead (but I genuinely do listen to everything), lol. Here’s a quick rundown of my recent listening, with minimal notes:

    Sear Bliss - Heavenly Down. melodic black metal with a trombone!

    Within Destruction - Animetal. deathcore goes pop sensibilities; I really think between this album and Left to Suffer’s ‘Leap of Death’ we’re on the precipice of the birth of a new microgenre that does to deathcore what easycore did to melodic hardcore and metalcore.

    The Weeknd - Hurry Up Tomorrow. I’ve been a Weeknd fan since his original three mixtapes dropped, and finally got around to listening to his latest.

    Dayseeker - Dark Sun. metalcore-tinged synthpop.

    Watsky - Intention. kinda hippie-drenched indie hip-hop?

    Rioghan - Kept. melodic and slightly djenty alt-metal; I was really hyped for Jinjer’s new album before it came out but honestly Rioghan’s Kept kind of sounds like what I wanted but didn’t fully get from Jinjer.

    and I also recently caught up on some classics that somehow flew under my radar:

    The Devil Wears Prada - With Roots Above and Branches Below.

    Whitechapel - This is Exile

    Emmure - Goodbye to the Gallows

    As I Lay Dying - An Ocean Between Us

    and today I’ve been obsessively listening to:

    Deafheaven - Lonely People With Power. just absolutely insanely incredible blackgaze post-metal.

    If you’ve been listening to anything, I’d love to hear about it as well!





  • Having empathy does not mean we have to work under the assumption that everything should cater to the most delicate of sensibilities (even if the reason for said delicate sensibility are well-justified). I am empathetic and I am sorry for the additional challenges navigating experiences like this can cause you.

    I still stand by my point.

    And to your point, yes tagging is a wonderful system and it does help those like yourself in your navigation. I support tagging and like OP mentioned, love systems that allow for robust tagging.

    But let’s be clear, that kind of tag is a very kind and wonderful courtesy, the absence of which is not malicious, it is neutral.












  • Yeah people are missing your point and thinking you’re praising Booker’s specific action as the solution rather than what (I think) you’re actually doing, which is praising action in general and encouraging others to recognize and take up whatever actions they can/will in lieu of inaction.

    Good on you.






  • Advertisers didn’t change queer people, queer people changed advertisers.

    You’re not immune to marketing and conditioning. It’s not a one-way street, it’s two-way.

    How can someone have lots of sex without being pro-sex?

    I dunno, maybe ask the Catholic Church, or the Mormon Church, or any other famously anti-sex organization that promotes heavy breeding but still uses harmful shame tied to sex as a a means of control?

    You’re incorrectly conflating the idea of doing sexual things in general and the idea of doing sexual things in public; most Pride events are less overtly sexual now than they were in the past, but that’s not a reduction to the original goals of Pride.

    No, I’m not. You’re conflating being pro-sex with being sexually active.