• kubica
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    And then feel guilty for wasting so much water.

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      I want to nitpick the definition of “waste” for a moment. Yes, you are using a lot of water, and energy if the water is heated, BUT if you’re getting something remotely positive out of it (and you’re paying for it), then I would not consider it wasteful. If you genuinely want to label it as something, then let’s compromise and call it therapeutic. Deal?

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        Unless you’re in California or any other area with a low water table. Then it’s a huge issue.

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          Compare this person’s shower to the many farms growing almonds in the same state.

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            If I was Governor of California I’d push to make it so Almonds and Alfalfa can’t be grown during the drought seasons.

            I can live without a legume and I don’t think I know a single person in my entire circle’s circles who has eaten alfalfa.

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              714 days ago

              The alfalfa isn’t for humans, it’s for high intensity dairy and cattle farming.

              • Jerkface (any/all)
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                314 days ago

                It sucks that this is practically occult information. People have no understanding of the damage they do.

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                314 days ago

                Yup, it’s just beef, cheese and milk. Though if you can find them without e.coli their sprouts are good on sandwiches too.

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        You must also consider the externalities, not just the financial cost that you bear personally.

      • kubica
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        I’d like to see it that way, but fresh water scarcity is a growing problem in many areas.

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          I have to wonder how much impact people taking 30-minute showers would have compared to corporate [mis]use.

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            Corporate waste massively overshadows personal use.

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          615 days ago

          Then we should take it from companies that use it to cool AI super computers, mass surveillance networks, grow the worst water to plant ratio crops possible.

          You could take a shower for 4 hours and it wouldn’t make a dent to the misuse by corporations.

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            114 days ago

            I saw an ad from Esso that said you can reduce gas usage by emptying out your trunk!

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        This is Lemmy, if you use water to water a plant, it never goes anywhere, it disappears entirely and there is no wider system that the water might become a part of, and if you eat an almond you’ve literally used all the water a city would use in a year.

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      Some of us live where a majority or the earth’s fresh water supply is. Water shortages tend to be localized

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      Lowtechmagazine wrote an excellent article about decadent mist showers that use many small nozzles spraying very fine mist particle sizes water on you as a much more efficient way to use water for showers. I would love to install and try out something like that one day.

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    4315 days ago

    the noise of the shower is the only thing that drowns out the tinnitus i’ve had for over 20 years. so yea, i’m often in there til the water goes cold.

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    The scalding water serves as a moderately acceptable substitute for the warmth of human contact I’m so terrible at cultivating.

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    Okay first thing i do is i turn on the water, and hold the shower head in my hand, pointing it away from myself until the water is hot.

    Then i quickly spray the water all over my body, so i am completely wet. Then hang up the shower head, and step under it.

    Then my brain shuts off for an undetermined amount of time.

    Then i put shampoo in my hair, armpits and crotch, then finally soap everywhere else.

    Make sure to get all the soap off, then dry myself. Total of ~45min.

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      Then my brain shuts off for an undetermined amount of time.

      Pretty much this for me.

      I’ve gotten pretty good at 10 minute showers before work, but I absolutely blank out from time to time.

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      Then my brain shuts off for an undetermined amount of time.

      After this, I first need to remember if I’m already done washing myself or haven’t started yet.

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      lol I do the same thing but I do the washing part first. Because sometimes I will be in their so long I forget if I washed myself or not yet, so I just do it first

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        314 days ago

        I have had a beard for about 20 years. The world has not run out of people who have to ask how I clean it and are somehow surprised that I use shampoo on it. “Oh, yeah, I suppose it is hair!”

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    2715 days ago

    Hot water on skin is comforting and calming like few other things. If I could work from the shower I probably would.

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    1615 days ago

    falling water to temporarily wash away some of the horror of corporeal human life.

    Finally! Someone gets me! 💙

  • @[email protected]
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    1415 days ago

    I used to stare off into nothingness in the shower. It would take maybe 7-8 minutes to actually wash myself; sporadically throughout the process, I’d zone out for a couple minutes at a time.

    Now, I’ve got long curly hair that needs frequent tending to. Unless I want my showers to be an hour+ long, I gotta stay focused. I still stare off into nothingness while brushing and whatnot, that helps take away the dread.

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      sporadically throughout the process, I’d zone out for a couple minutes at a time.

      Same. And when I come back to the present, I will sometimes lose track of what was washed already because I was on autopilot/dissociating before stopping to stare at nothing.

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        414 days ago

        Next time you wonder whether you already shampooed:

        Grab a stretch of hair between thumb and middle finger. Pull/away from head. Listen for squeak. If you hear the squeak, put the shampoo down!

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      115 days ago

      Came to say this!

      Thick, curly waist-length hair requires that I be in there. God help me if I want to do a second pass at it.

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    1314 days ago

    Got a heat pump so now long showers use much less energy.

    Now makes me wonder what the COP is during the summer, if you time the shower so that the heat pump works during the hot part of the day it should be pretty high. 30°c outside, barely needs to work to heat the water.

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      Doing my installation now for hot water. Combining gas and direct electricity. Will be more or less endless showers with a small bill. First gas then keeping it hot with electric one. Wished I had a heat pump but for another time with bigger budget.

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        I got the heat pump and all pipework/radiators replaced, the government paid for a bit over half of the total cost as they give you £7.5k now toward replacing a boiler with a heat pump. Plus everything is VAT free as part of the install, so it was pretty much no more expensive than doing the same thing with a gas boiler. The pipework kinda needed replacing anyway, it was shit. Putting more efficient radiators on is a fairly small job when you are having all the pipework replaced already.

        Got it done before moving into the house when we bought it, if you already live there I could see it being quite disruptive.

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          Yea , doing it all by myself as well so nothing close to that. However this is just for water not for the heating , got pellets, wood and sun for that. Think I can get something as well for updating heating and insulation here. so will look into that later.

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    Dude, I’m shaving! Shaving my face and everywhere else I need. Also brushing my teeth. Still doesn’t take 30 but it feels good to be hot water my god. Just like a bath or hot tub. Why rush?

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    Honestly, I just zone out for a bit. Especially during the winter it’s nice to have warm water pouring over you

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      114 days ago
      spoiler

      Gotta squat down and spray that showerhead at your butthole and balls to get it really clean and check better than any online gay test survey can ever do whether you would enjoy butt stuff. Some of my best groaning out loud orgasms are in the shower, and yes it takes a while.


      • ivanafterall ☑️
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        214 days ago

        I think the test was that you were looking for an “online gay test butt stuff survey” versus just “butt stuff,” which isn’t inherently gay.